The way she pauses everything to have a little pow-wow to decide where we should perform our first dance 😂
#actuallyautistic #fyp #bride #weddinginspo #newlyweds #firstdance #reception #weddingdress #wedding #weddingday #brideandgroom #fyp #autisticadult #autismawareness #
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