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When women marry men, they often take on the work of maintaining the relationships with his family. This work unfairly falls to women and when the in-laws feel like they don’t see them enough, they often blame the woman. It’s important that we change our perspective here, and to men to become more involved in this important work. ##mentalload ##mentalloadofmotherhood ##kinkeeping ##inlaws ##holidayvibes ##marriageadvice

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Men need to take their paid parental leave. When they don’t it directly, harms women in the workplace. This is a big reason why the motherhood, penalty and wage gap exist. ##Maternityleave##newdad##newmom##parentalleave##dadlife##workigmom##defaultparent##wfhmom##newbaby
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If your partner has ever said to you that they’re jealous of your commute chances are it’s not the commute or jealous of. They’re probably jealous that you get time to yourself. Time that they may not have access to. ##wfhmom##wfh##defaultparent##millennialmom##workingmom##sahm
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Looking for a solution to the mental load? Just give it to god. #mentalload #mentalloadofmotherhood #defaultparent #marriagehumor #marriageadvice
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Happy Valentine’s Day ##marriagematerial##marriageadvice##valentinesday
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Don’t threaten us with a good time #marriagehumor #mentalload #defaultparent #dinnerideas
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There are so many double standards when it comes to parenting #defaultparent #divorce #custody #millennialmom #marriage #mentalload #domesticlabor
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Most women are the default parent. This did not happen by choice. It happens by default. It happens because there’s a suicidal expectation and pressure for women to adjust their lives to accommodate for family. We do not place the same expectation or pressure on men and therefore women become the default parent ##defaultparent##mentalload##mentalloadofmotherhood##marriage##millennialmom
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Replying to @Ok Karina the work that stay at home parents do is incredibly valuable yet so often we dismiss it. Stay at home parents deserve rest. They deserve time off. Their work is valuable. #s#sahms#sahmlifew#workingmomw#wfhmomm#momlifem#marriageadvice
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There are so many jokes on social media about the difference between men and women when they’re sick. And we joke about this because there’s so many double standards. Women and moms in particular are expected to keep functioning at 100% even when they’re sick. Men and fathers on the other hand, feel entitled to rest and recover. ##mancold#m#marriagehumord#dadhumorm#marriagem#millennialmomm#momlifem#mentalloads#sickkids
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Today we got the email about the annual tuition increase at our daycare. This is an email that many parents dread because the cost of childcare has gone up exponentially in the last few years. Families are already drowning in the cost and just a small increase can have huge financial impact on families #daycare #childcare #nanny #childcarecrisis #workingmom #wfhmom #workingparent #parenting
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I love to give real life examples of how the mental load shows up in our everyday lives. The mental load is everything you need to know do and remember for a specific task. It’s being the person who knows when you’re running low on toilet paper, it’s being the person to remember to buy it at the store Being the person to restock it. Being the person to carry the mental load can be exhausting. #mentalload #mentalloadofmotherhood #defaultparent #chores #domesticlabor #millennialmom #momlife
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