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Blended families often look picture-perfect from the outside, but behind the scenes? It can be chaos. I know this firsthand because, at one point, it almost broke us. When my husband and I first came together, we were full of hope, thinking we’d naturally find our rhythm as a new family. But soon after our wedding, reality hit hard. The kids were fighting, co-parenting was a constant struggle, and our ever-changing schedules added endless stress. My anxiety was through the roof, and it felt like everything I did was wrong. Then, my stress spiraled to the point where I ended up in the hospital. That was my wake-up call. I searched everywhere for solutions—therapy, books, advice from anyone who would listen—but nothing worked. We even considered divorce. It was the lowest point of my life, and I felt defeated. But I wasn’t ready to give up. I started experimenting, testing out different approaches, and learning from each mistake. And little by little, I discovered what really works for blended families—how to communicate effectively, how to prioritize connection, and how to transform tension into teamwork. It didn’t happen overnight, but we went from barely surviving to genuinely thriving. Our marriage became stronger, the kids learned to appreciate one another, and our house felt like a home again. We even decided to add two more little ones to our mix! If you’re feeling lost, overwhelmed, or like your blended family is too complicated to fix, know this: change is possible. You don’t have to go through it alone. I’ve been there, and I’m here to help guide you through. 💬 DM me if you’re ready to learn the tools that saved my family. And if you see yourself in this story, drop a ❤️ below so I know I’m not alone. #creatorsearchinsights #divorcedparents #divorced #secondchanceromance #stepfamily #stepmom

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🚨Unpopular opinion alert 🚨 I know that there are a lot of people out there telling you that blending families and non traditional families are all bad… Some people say that nothing good comes from blending families. They say it unnatural. They say they’d “never do it”. They say that it’s not worth the hassle. 👉 I disagree! Yes it can be difficult. Yes, some days are really hard. Yes, you might question if it’s worth it sometimes. But I also belief that blending families can be such a GIFT! I have seen every. single. person. in my family become a better human because of what we’ve gone through together. If I could go back in time, I’d make a few tweaks… But I’d do it all over again. 🩶 . . . . #blendingbravely #blendedfamily #coparenting #stepfamily #stepmom #stepkids #secondmarriage #divorcedmom #blendedandblessed

Are you and your partner in ‘roommate phase’? You know, where you’re technically together… but you feel miles apart? It happens slowly. One day, you realize most of your conversations are about carpool schedules and grocery lists. You sit next to each other but barely connect. The romance feels… flat. And maybe part of you wonders, Is this just how marriage goes? Here’s the truth: It doesn’t have to be this way. Signs You’re in Roommate Mode: ✔️ You talk all day, but it’s about chores, not each other ✔️ You’re co-existing more than truly connecting ✔️ Physical affection feels awkward or non-existent ✔️ Date nights? You can’t remember the last one ✔️ You miss how things used to feel The worst part is that you don’t even know how to fix it. The good news is that you CAN bring back connection, fun, and real intimacy. Inside my FREE webinar on March 19—What Happy Moms in Complex Dynamics Do Differently—I’ll teach you the small shifts that create big changes in your relationship and family life. If you’ve been feeling disconnected, stuck in survival mode, or just off in your marriage… this is for you. 📌 Save this post to come back to later, and send it to a friend who needs to hear this. Comment WEBINAR below and I will send you the link so you can save your spot for the class.

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My client was feeling frustrated. Every conversation felt like a battle. She loved her husband, but they just weren’t clicking anymore. I gave her ONE simple challenge: Find one good thing about him every day—and tell him. Not just in her head. Not just in a journal. Out loud. 👉 “I appreciate how hard you work for us.” 👉 “You’re such a great dad.” 👉 “I love how you always make me laugh.” At first, it felt awkward. But something crazy happened… By day 3, she started noticing more good things.  By day 5, he started responding differently—more engaged, more affectionate.  By day 7? She said, “I feel like we’re reconnecting for the first time in forever.” Here’s the truth: what you focus on grows. Want to try this challenge? Drop a 💛 in the comments!  Tag a friend who needs to hear this. And if you’re ready for real, lasting change in your marriage, my coaching spots are open—DM me “MARRIAGE” and let’s chat. created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with TiffStarfire’s original sound

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Was it hard to get remarried after betrayal? Honestly… yes. But not for the reasons you might think. When your trust has been shattered before, stepping into a new marriage feels like walking a tightrope over a canyon. You want to believe in love again, but the fear of history repeating itself? It’s real. Maybe you’ve felt it too—the way your brain overanalyzes every disagreement, the moments when you wonder, Am I being too guarded? Too needy? Too much? The way your past sneaks into your present, making you question whether you’re really safe this time. The truth is that healing doesn’t mean you’ll never feel afraid. It means you’ll recognize the fear and choose to trust yourself anyway. For me, rebuilding my confidence in love wasn’t about pretending my past didn’t happen. It was about learning to trust myself again—my ability to recognize red flags, communicate my needs, and build something new instead of just surviving the old. And if you’re in a new marriage, still wrestling with the aftershocks of the past, you’re not alone. You deserve to feel at home in your own relationship, without waiting for the other shoe to drop. This is exactly what we’re talking about in my upcoming FREE webinar on March 19—"What Happy Moms in Complex Dynamics Do Differently." If you want to stop walking on eggshells, second-guessing yourself, or carrying the weight of your past into your future, you need to be there. Comment “I’m in” and I’ll send you the link!  Tag a friend who needs to hear this today.  Save this for when you need the reminder. Your past may have shaped you, but it doesn’t define what’s possible for you. #onthisday created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with Non-Traditional Family Coach’s original sound

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I used to think peace in my family would come when everyone finally got along, when the tension disappeared, or when things just felt easier. So, I prayed. I prayed for fewer arguments. I prayed for smoother days. I prayed that everyone in the house would finally just click. But instead of instantly fixing everything around me… God started fixing me. ✨ He taught me that peace isn’t the absence of hard things—it’s my ability to navigate them with grace.  ✨ He showed me that peace isn’t waiting for my circumstances to change—it’s creating it within myself first.  ✨ And He reminded me that true peace doesn’t come from having a ‘perfect’ family. It comes from knowing I am not doing this alone. The mistake I used to make was that I believed peace was something that happened to me when the kids stopped bickering, when my partner magically understood my every thought, when life stopped throwing curveballs. But Peace is built, not wished for. ✅ It’s built when I take a deep breath instead of reacting. ✅ It’s built when I communicate instead of assuming. ✅ It’s built when I choose presence over perfection. I definitely don’t always get it right. But I do know this, when I stopped waiting for peace and started creating it, everything changed. If this spoke to you, share it with a friend who needs this reminder today. And if you’re ready to start creating peace in your own home, I’m teaching a free class to help—comment PEACE and I’ll send you the link! ✨ Follow for more tips and real-life stories on how to build peace and connection in your family! created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with Mathis Decroux’s Outro by M83

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For the longest time, I thought the problem was our different parenting styles. I figured if we could just agree on the rules, consequences, and approaches, everything would feel easier. But no matter how many conversations (or arguments) we had, we’d end up frustrated, disconnected, and stuck in the same cycle. Then it hit me, we WEREN’T actually on different teams… we just weren’t playing the same game. I was parenting from a place of protecting MY peace, MY comfort, and MY way of doing things.  He was parenting from what he knew, and honestly, sometimes that looked different from what I wanted. We were both trying to be good parents, but we weren’t moving in sync. So instead of fighting for my way, I started fighting for us…for a real partnership. Instead of saying, “You’re wrong,” I started asking, “What are we both missing here?” 👉🏽 I asked what he was most worried about when making certain decisions. 👉🏽 I got clear on where I was letting my own triggers control the conversation. 👉🏽 I started seeing our differences as something to navigate together, not something that made him wrong. And guess what? We stopped arguing. Not because we suddenly agreed on everything, but because we started trusting each other more. If you and your husband struggle to get on the same page with parenting, you’re not alone. I help couples in complicated family circumstances families align and become a partnership. DM me to see if I can help you too. 📌 Save this for later if parenting disagreements have been stressing you out.

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Me, watching a mom do literally everything while everyone around her acts like it’s normal... NOPE. Not today. If you’re the one remembering appointments, planning meals, managing schedules, handling emotions, and basically running the whole show—this is your reminder that you shouldn’t have to do it all alone. It’s not "just how it is." It’s not "what moms do." It’s a mental load that deserves to be shared. If this hits home, tag a mom who needs to hear this today. And if you’re ready to stop carrying the weight of the world alone, join my free webinar on March 19: What Happy Moms in Complex Dynamics Do Differently. Comment WEBINAR below if you want me to send you the link. Burnout isn’t the goal—balance is. created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with Luciano Michelini’s Frolic (Theme from "Curb Your Enthusiasm" TV Show)

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What if everything you’ve been told about “just making it work” in a complex family dynamic is actually keeping you stuck? 🤯 I used to think love alone would be enough. That if we just tried hard enough, things would fall into place. But blending lives, parenting differences, and navigating all the emotions that come with it? It was so much harder than I expected. I’ve been the woman who felt like she was failing. The one lying awake at night wondering: ❌ Why does everything feel so disconnected? ❌ Why does my patience run out so fast? ❌ Am I the only one struggling like this? The truth is that HAPPY moms in complex family dynamics do things differently. And once I figured out what that was, everything started to shift. ✅ I stopped second-guessing my every move. ✅ I created peace inside myself—even when things outside felt messy. ✅ My marriage got stronger instead of strained. ✅ I found JOY again. If you’ve ever thought, This is harder than I thought it would be—you are not alone. And the good news is that you don’t have to figure it out alone either. I’m hosting a FREE live class on March 19: What Happy Moms in Complex Dynamics Do Differently. I’ll walk you through the biggest shifts that will actually help you feel more calm, confident, and connected (without waiting for everything else to change first). Drop a ❤️ in the comments if you’ve ever felt like you’re carrying too much, and I’ll DM you the link to join! And if you know another mom who needs this? Send this her way. #onthisday created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with Non-Traditional Family Coach’s original sound

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Ever sit in church and feel like your family doesn’t quite fit the mold? The lesson is about strong families, and you’re sitting there wondering if yours even counts. Maybe the teacher shares a sweet story about a husband and wife raising their kids together from birth, and you’re over here juggling custody schedules, step-sibling drama, and a dynamic that feels anything but simple. Maybe you get the well-meaning, but awkward, comments: 🔹 “So… do the kids call you ‘Mom’?” 🔹 “Wow, I don’t know how you do it.” 🔹 “It must be so hard not having them all the time.” And you smile and nod… but inside, you’re wondering why no one ever talks about your kind of family. Here’s what I need you to know: 👉God sees your family. 👉He knows your heart. 👉And love (not structure) makes a home whole. Your family may not look traditional, but that doesn’t make it any less real, meaningful, or sacred. You are doing holy work in the chaos. You belong here, and so does your family. If you’ve ever felt out of place, just know… you’re not alone. Share this with a friend who gets it.

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Is your family really ‘broken’… or just different? Somewhere along the way, we started believing that only families with a mom, dad, and 2.5 kids under one roof are “whole.” And that anything outside of that must be less than. Messy. Complicated. Broken. But here’s the truth… A ‘perfect’ nuclear family doesn’t guarantee a healthy home. And a ‘non-traditional’ family doesn’t mean broken. The real difference is how we show up inside the family we have. I see so many moms making the same mistakes that leave them feeling exhausted, unseen, and questioning if this will ever feel like home: ❌ Trying to force connection instead of building it organically ❌ Measuring their family against an impossible, outdated standard ❌ Taking all the responsibility for “fixing” things while carrying the mental load alone When you stop trying to fit your family into a mold it was never meant for, you start seeing the beauty in what you have. A home where everyone belongs. A love that deepens with time. A family that isn’t ‘less than’…just different. And different can be really, really good. If this hit home, save it to come back to later and share it to your stories—someone else needs this reminder today too. ✨ Also, if you’re tired of feeling like you’re just surviving family life and want to know what happy moms in complex dynamics do differently, join me for my free webinar on March 19. Drop a 💙 in the comments, and I’ll send you the details!

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If I could go back in time, I’d tell myself NOT to do these things in my second marriage… 👇 I walked into this marriage thinking our love would be enough. That if we cared about each other, we’d figure it out. But I quickly realized that love isn’t the problem…unrealistic expectations, unhealed wounds, and bad habits are. Here’s what I wish I had known sooner: ❌ I thought avoiding hard conversations would keep the peace. Turns out it just created resentment. Silence doesn’t fix problems, it makes them grow. ❌ I assumed my husband and I would naturally be on the same page. But blending different pasts, parenting styles, and habits takes work. No one magically “just gets it” without communication and effort. ❌ I made everything about the kids and let my marriage take a backseat. We told ourselves “it’s just a season,” but the truth is, seasons become years if you’re not intentional. A strong marriage doesn’t happen by accident. If any of this sounds familiar, you don’t have to figure it all out by yourself. I help women in non-traditional families feel less stressed through complex circumstances. I’m hosting a FREE live webinar on March 19: “What Happy Moms in Complex Dynamics Do Differently.” I’ll teach you the mindset shifts, habits, and strategies that actually make a difference. Drop a ❤️ if this hit home, and save this post to come back to later! And don’t forget to grab your spot for the webinar (link in bio!) because trust me, you don’t want to miss this. created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with Weezer’s Island In The Sun

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I didn’t expect much. Honestly, I was just curious. Could something as simple as a daily text actually make a difference in our marriage? So I tried it. Every day for a week, I sent my husband a short, meaningful message. Not just “I love you” or “Hope your day is good,” but texts with intention…words that showed appreciation, love, and connection. Here’s what I sent: 💬 “Thanks for taking (child to place) every Wednesday” 💬 “Just wanted to say that I love you and appreciate all that you do for our family.” 💬 “Thinking about our first date today. So grateful for how far we’ve come.” 💬 “I feel safest with you. Just wanted you to know.” 💬 “I love the way you make me laugh when I need it most.” And you know what happened? He started sending sweet messages back. He was more affectionate and present. We felt closer without changing anything else in our routine. Marriage isn’t about grand gestures. It’s the small, daily choices that build trust, connection, and intimacy. Also, if you want to know what happy moms do differently, I’m teaching a free webinar on March 19 that will be a game changer. Comment WEBINAR and I’ll send you the link! Tag your husband (or save 💾 this for later) if you want to try this challenge too! created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with Wale’s LoveHate Thing (Sped Up Version)

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Ever heard that one before? Maybe it was from a well-meaning friend, a family member, or even a stranger who doesn’t have a clue what it’s actually like to be in your shoes. But here’s what they don’t understand… —You do focus on your own kids—but you also love a man who came with his own, and that means your family isn’t so black and white. —You can’t just turn off your feelings, ignore dynamics, or pretend that the challenges don’t affect everyone in the home. —And if you tried to “just focus on your own kids”? You’d still feel the tension. The imbalance. The loneliness of doing it all without a true partnership. Non-traditional families don’t work like a light switch—on for some, off for others. They’re intertwined, complicated, and full of moving parts. And pretending otherwise doesn’t make it easier—it makes it heavier. So if you’ve ever felt misunderstood in this journey, just know this: you’re not alone, and you’re not wrong for wanting things to feel better. Have you ever had someone say this to you? How did you respond? Tell me in the comments. 👇 ✨ And if you’re ready to learn what happy moms in stressful families do differently, I’m teaching a free webinar on March 19 that you won’t want to miss. Comment WEBINAR and I’ll send you the link! created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with kingnintendo’s duvet by bôa

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I just stood there for a second, trying to process what they had just said. Because selfish is the last thing I feel. Is it selfish to love a man who had kids before me? Is it selfish to try to create a home where everyone feels safe and valued?  Is it selfish to want my kids to grow up in a family full of love, not division? Blended families don’t come with a rulebook. And sometimes, people who don’t live this life just don’t understand it. But here’s what I know:  I refuse to shrink myself, my heart, or my role just to make someone else more comfortable. Loving my husband and being a present mom to my own kids are not mutually exclusive. So no, it’s not selfish. It’s real life. And I’m doing the best I can to make it work. Have you ever had someone say something like this to you? ✨ Also—if you want to know what happy moms in stressful families do differently, I’m teaching a free webinar on March 19 that will be a game changer. Comment WEBINAR and I’ll send you the link! #onthisday created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with Non-Traditional Family Coach’s original sound

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“I’ll be fine. I just need a minute.” Ever sat in your car, taking deep breaths, wiping away tears, just trying to pull yourself together before walking inside? I have. More than once. Because some days feel like too much. Too much pressure. Too many emotions. Too many things to juggle, fix, and manage… while still showing up with a smile. You spend all day making sure everyone else is okay. But when was the last time you were? —Holding everything in until it explodes isn’t strength—it’s survival mode. —Powering through exhaustion without addressing it? That’s not resilience—it’s burnout in disguise. —Pretending you’re fine when you’re clearly not? It’s not helping anyone. It’s pushing you further from the life you actually want. You don’t have to carry it all alone. What if, instead of just getting through the days, you actually started enjoying them again? What if you had the tools to make life feel lighter—without feeling guilty for needing support? ✨ That’s exactly what I’m teaching in a FREE live webinar on March 19—and I don’t want you to miss it. I’ll be breaking down what happy moms do differently—so you can stop surviving and start feeling like yourself again. Drop WEBINAR in the comments, and I’ll send you the link! (And if you know a mom who needs this, tag her below!) created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with Know Good’s Brain Stew Know Good Flip

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For the longest time, I thought the problem was our different parenting styles. I figured if we could just agree on the rules, consequences, and approaches, everything would feel easier. But no matter how many conversations (or arguments) we had, we’d end up frustrated, disconnected, and stuck in the same cycle. Then it hit me, we WEREN’T actually on different teams… we just weren’t playing the same game. I was parenting from a place of protecting MY peace, MY comfort, and MY way of doing things.  He was parenting from what he knew, and honestly, sometimes that looked different from what I wanted. We were both trying to be good parents, but we weren’t moving in sync. So instead of fighting for my way, I started fighting for us…for a real partnership. Instead of saying, “You’re wrong,” I started asking, “What are we both missing here?” 👉🏽 I asked what he was most worried about when making certain decisions. 👉🏽 I got clear on where I was letting my own triggers control the conversation. 👉🏽 I started seeing our differences as something to navigate together, not something that made him wrong. And guess what? We stopped arguing. Not because we suddenly agreed on everything, but because we started trusting each other more. If you and your husband struggle to get on the same page with parenting, you’re not alone. I help couples in complicated family circumstances families align and become a partnership. DM me to see if I can help you too. 📌 Save this for later if parenting disagreements have been stressing you out.  🔄 Share with a friend who needs to hear this today! created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with Selena Gomez & benny blanco’s Scared Of Loving You

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I see this happen ALL the time, and it drives me crazy. It’s easy to get caught up in the drama of co-parenting, right? But being difficult out of spite doesn't make you a strong co-parent. It actually makes you immature. 😬 You may not want to admit it, but we all know that feeling of trying to “win” or make the other parent feel something for what they've done. Maybe you hold back information, ignore their requests, or make everything harder than it needs to be…because you think you're teaching them a lesson. But let’s be real. You’re not getting ahead, you're just stuck. I know, I’ve been there. When I first started navigating co-parenting, I was caught in that cycle. I thought I could punish through silence or withholding, but all I was doing was adding fuel to the fire. Here’s what I learned: If you really want to be a strong co-parent, you have to show up with maturity and grace, even when it's hard. Take this example: One time, instead of reacting to a schedule change that felt unfair, my husband and I both had to take a deep breath and calmly proposed a solution. Was it easy? No. But the results were everything. By being the bigger person, we gained respect and trust from the other parent, and it made things smoother for the kids. If you’re tired of the drama and want to find peace in your family life, it’s time to take responsibility for your actions and choose maturity over spite. Your peace and your kids’ peace are worth it. If you’ve been struggling with your co-parenting relationship, DM me and let’s chat about how you can shift your mindset and start creating better communication and cooperation. Save this post for when you need a reminder and share it with a friend who’s also working through co-parenting struggles.

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I caught myself doing it again this week. I was stressed, overwhelmed, and exhausted… and instead of dealing with it, I did what most people do. ✅ I avoided it—telling myself, I’ll deal with it later. ✅ I overthought it—spiraling through every possible scenario. ✅ I numbed it—scrolling my phone, hoping to feel better. And guess what? It didn’t help. In fact, it made things worse. 🫠 The weight of stress kept growing, my mind felt like a tangled mess, and no amount of distraction could fix it. So I did something different. I acknowledged the stress. I paused and breathed. I got honest about what was actually causing it. And then, I took one small step toward solving it. And THAT is when the relief came. The truth is that the stress doesn’t go away on its own. But when you take control of it instead of letting it control you? That’s when everything changes. 💬 What’s your go-to stress response? Avoid, overthink, or numb? Drop it in the comments, I want to hear! And if you’re ready to break out of the stress cycle for good, send me a DM. I’ll help you take the first step toward peace.

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Ever feel like no matter how much effort you put in, things STILL feel overwhelming? Like you’re trying so hard to be patient, to communicate well, to “do the right thing,” but it’s just not working? And then the doubt creeps in… Maybe I’m just not cut out for this. Maybe I’m doing it all wrong. Maybe it’s always going to be this hard. I need you to hear me on this:  You are NOT failing. The fact that it feels hard doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong, it means you’re doing something that requires growth. Here’s what’s actually happening: 👉 Your brain is wired to resist change. When you step into new roles, new routines, or new challenges, your mind naturally looks for “proof” that it’s not working. That voice telling you, See? This is too hard. You’re not good at this.That’s just fear talking. Don’t listen. 👉 You’re measuring success the wrong way. If you only define success as “everything feels easy and perfect,” you’ll always feel like you’re failing. But real success? It looks like showing up even when it’s messy. Staying kind even when you’re frustrated. Taking a deep breath instead of reacting. That’s progress. 👉 You’re putting pressure on yourself to fix everything overnight. Growth takes TIME. No one builds deep, lasting relationships, trust, or confidence in a day. If you’re in the middle of the hard part, it doesn’t mean it’s always going to be this way. It just means you’re still in the becoming. What to do instead:  ✅ Look at the small wins because they add up. ✅ Shift the goal from “everything is perfect” to “I’m handling things better than before.” ✅ Remember: Struggle isn’t failure. Struggle is proof that you’re growing. 🙋🏻‍♀️ Let’s talk → Have you ever felt like you’re failing, only to realize later that you were actually making progress the whole time? Drop a “YES” in the comments if this hit home for you. 🔁 SAVE & SHARE → If you needed this reminder today, someone else does too. Share this with a friend who needs to hear it. ✨ Want more strategies to make life feel lighter? Inside The Studio, I help you go from overwhelmed to confident with real, doable tools for a peaceful home. DM me “STUDIO” for details! created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with Hozier’s Would That I (True that I saw her hair like the branch of a tree)

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I used to think my husband just didn’t care… but then I realized what was actually going on. You swore you’d never end up in a relationship like this where everything feels like a battle, every conversation turns into a debate, and no matter what you say, he just doesn’t get it. Maybe it’s the way you parent. Maybe it’s how you handle stress. Maybe it’s feeling like you’re carrying the weight of this family while he coasts. Whatever it is, you’re exhausted from feeling like you’re speaking two different languages. Here’s what’s actually keeping you from getting on the same page: 👉 You’re trying to be heard, but he’s trying to avoid conflict. When you bring up an issue, does he shut down? Change the subject? Or worse, say “you’re overreacting”? That’s not because he doesn’t care. It’s because he hates feeling like he’s failing. If every conversation feels like an attack, he’s going to do what’s easiest: shut down or push back. 👉 You expect him to think like you do. Your brain is wired to notice all the things…what’s missing, what’s not working, what needs to be done. His brain? Likely not. So when you’re overwhelmed and he’s unbothered, it feels like he just doesn’t care when really, he sees the same situation completely differently. 👉 You bring it up when emotions are high. Ever tried to have a calm discussion in the heat of frustration? Yeah, me neither. But we do it anyway because we want to fix things now. The problem? When you’re already irritated, he’s already defensive, and nothing gets solved. So what can you do instead?  ✅ Bring up concerns when you’re both calm. ✅ Focus on solutions instead of blame. ✅ Get clear on what you actually need…then ask for it. ✅ Remember: you’re on the same team. Save this for later & share with a friend who needs to hear it. ➡️ Follow @itsmebrittneyp for more real-life strategies to build a stronger marriage and create a peaceful home…even when life feels messy. created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with Kendrick Lamar’s tv off

I’ve had the privilege of witnessing some mind-blowing transformations. The kind that make you believe in the impossible. These miracles didn’t happen overnight. They happened when my clients took a leap of faith, even when it seemed scary, and trusted that something bigger was in store for them. I’ve seen women shift from feeling overwhelmed and isolated to finding joy and connection within their families. From doubting themselves to standing confidently in their role as a mom and partner. I’ve witnessed marriages strengthened and lives completely transformed—simply because they decided to take that next step and ask for support. One client, who was overwhelmed with fear and resentment is now feeling at peace and more connected than ever. Another started setting clear boundaries and—guess what?—she started getting the respect she longed for from her stepkids. When we take that leap, when we decide that something better is possible, miracles happen. They might not always look like what we expect, but they are real! If you’ve been on the edge of making a change or taking that leap, this is your sign. Change is possible. Your family can feel the way you’ve always dreamed it would (or even better than you can imagine). 👉 Save this post if you need a reminder that miracles are just a leap of faith away. Share it with a friend who needs to hear this today. And if you're ready to start your own transformation, let's talk. DM me or check the link in my bio to learn more. You can make the impossible possible. created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with Bertha Tillman’s Oh My Angel

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What if God put you in this family for a reason? I get it, blending a family feels impossible some days. The stress of different parenting styles, constant conflict with stepchildren, and the emotional exhaustion can make you wonder if things will ever get easier. But what if the challenges you’re facing are part of a bigger plan? What if these difficult moments are shaping you into a more patient, loving, and resilient person? What if you’re exactly where you need to be to grow and help your family grow? When I first stepped into my blended family, I felt overwhelmed. I wanted peace, connection, and unity. But it wasn’t happening overnight. I struggled with feeling like an outsider, especially when my kids and my partner’s kids didn’t seem to mesh. I would get so frustrated, thinking maybe we just weren’t meant to be a family. But then I started to shift my mindset. Instead of asking, “Why is this so hard?”, I began asking, “What is this teaching me?” That’s when I realized that God had placed me here because He trusted me with the challenge of creating something beautiful. He knew I could find peace amidst the chaos. He knew I would learn how to connect, how to understand, and how to grow through it all. I didn’t have to fix my family. I needed to heal and lead by example. To embrace the mess, learn from it, and build something stronger and more meaningful than I ever thought possible. So, what if everything is actually going right? What if this family, this challenge, this chaos is the opportunity you’ve been waiting for? The chance to step into your purpose and create a family dynamic that reflects your strength, your patience, and your love? If you’re ready to see your blended family through a new lens, you don’t have to do it alone. I help women navigate the highs and lows of blended family life with confidence and clarity.  👉 Follow along for more support on your stepfamily journey!

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You don’t have to feel like a “real mom” to be a good stepmom. I know what it’s like to question if you’re enough in this role. To wonder if you should be doing more, acting differently, or if the kids will ever see you the way you wish they did. There’s this unspoken pressure to mother in a way that looks like their biological mom, to show up the same way, feel the same way, be the same way. But here’s the truth… ✨ You don’t have to love them like a mom to love them well. ✨ You don’t have to replace anyone to be a significant part of their life. ✨ You don’t have to force what isn’t natural—your role is already valuable. Stepmotherhood isn’t about fitting into a mold, it’s about embracing your own role with confidence. When you do that, your presence in their life becomes something real, steady, and meaningful.  Tag a stepmom who needs to hear this today.  📩 And if you're craving guidance in this journey, The Studio is where we dive deep into these struggles. DM me “STUDIO” for details! created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with BEN SCOTT’s The Bug Collector

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❌ “Just give it time.” ❌ “Be extra nice, and they’ll warm up to you.” ❌ “Force a relationship.” If you’ve ever been ignored by your stepkid, you already know these don’t work. 😩 Being overly nice feels fake.  Giving them too much space makes things even more awkward.  And waiting for them to magically come around? Not a great plan. So what CAN you do? —> Use calm, pressure-free scripts that acknowledge their feelings while still keeping the door open for connection. The key is to make them feel safe, seen, and in control of when they engage…without you shutting down or pulling away. It won’t instantly change things, but it does something important:  ✅ Keeps you from feeling like the villain. ✅ Prevents resentment from building up. ✅ Creates the foundation for future trust. I teach more tips like this inside The Studio, where you’ll learn how to navigate stepfamily dynamics, find confidence in your role, and build the peaceful home you’ve been craving. DM me for more info! And if you know a stepmom who needs this? Tag her below or share this post.

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You love your family, but sometimes it feels like you’re just… there. Like no one really sees you. Your stepkids already have their routines, their inside jokes, their traditions…and you’re left trying to find your place in a space that doesn’t quite feel like yours. And it’s exhausting. You try to connect, to create a home that feels warm and welcoming, but deep down, you wonder: Will I ever feel like I belong here? Feeling this way doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong. It means you’re human. Blending a family isn’t about fitting into their world, it’s about creating a new one together. And that takes time. More time than anyone really talks about. If this hits home, you are NOT alone. Drop a ❤️ in the comments if you’ve ever felt like this.  Follow for more real talk about blended family life. created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with Aura Classica’s Ponchielli Dance of the Hours

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Co-parenting isn’t always about making things equal, it’s about finding what actually works. And sometimes that feels nearly impossible. I’ve had moments where every message felt like a battle, every exchange was tense, and every decision turned into a power struggle. I wanted things to be fair, to be easy, to be cooperative…but instead, I felt drained, frustrated, and stuck in a cycle of resentment. Then I started asking myself: What’s actually within my control? ✔️ How I respond (instead of react) ✔️ What boundaries I set (and stick to) ✔️ Where I focus my energy (instead of wasting it on what I wish were different) When co-parenting feels impossible, I remind myself that Peace doesn’t come from THEM changing. It comes from ME deciding how I want to show up. If co-parenting is a struggle, my 1:1 coaching sessions can help. Let’s work together to create a plan that works for you. DM me or book a free discovery call through the link in bio!

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What if I told you that parenting stress doesn’t have to drive a wedge between you and your husband? I get it, every conversation seems to circle back to the kids. Disagreements over rules, discipline, or how to handle meltdowns leave you feeling more like teammates in a losing game than partners in a loving marriage. I remember the nights lying in bed, right next to him, but feeling miles apart. I wanted to reach for his hand, but resentment held me back. He didn’t see things the way I did. And I was exhausted from fighting for connection when parenting stress seemed to consume us. But here’s the shift that changed everything: Instead of making parenting the center of our relationship, we made our relationship the foundation for our parenting. ✔️ We carved out time for conversations that weren’t about the kids. ✔️ We reminded ourselves that we’re on the same team, even when we disagree. ✔️ We started making small daily investments in us because when we’re strong, everything else feels more manageable. And you know what? Our home became calmer. The kids felt safer. And we stopped feeling like enemies trying to “win” parenting debates. If you’re feeling disconnected from your husband, you’re not alone. And you don’t have to stay stuck. 💛 If this resonated, follow for more support on marriage & stepfamily life. I help women in blended families feel confident in their marriage and parenting, so they can create a peaceful home without constant stress and conflict. DM me to see if you’re someone I can help too! created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with naddy🩹’s original sound - naddy🩹

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Co-parenting stress can feel like a third party in your relationship, silently (or loudly) influencing your peace, your connection, and your happiness. But here’s what most stepmoms don’t realize: It’s not the ex that’s breaking your marriage, it’s the way you and your husband are handling the stress. -Are you on the same page when she crosses a boundary? -Do you have a plan for how to handle disagreements? -Are you able to protect your marriage from the emotional rollercoaster of co-parenting? If not, it’s time for a better strategy. Inside The Studio, I teach women in blended families how to navigate co-parenting stress without it ruining their marriage. If you’re tired of letting the ex dictate your peace, this is where you take back control. Drop a ❤️ if you’ve ever felt like co-parenting was running your life, and share 📤 this with someone who needs to hear it. It’s time to take our marriages back.

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I used to think resentment was just part of being a stepmom. Like, of course I’d feel frustrated when my efforts went unnoticed. Of course I’d feel bitter when my stepchild rejected me. Of course I’d feel exhausted from always being the one to compromise. But no one told me that resentment isn’t just something we FEEL—it’s something we FEED. I didn’t realize I was unknowingly making it worse. Every time I replayed the hurt, held onto the unfairness, or convinced myself I was the only one trying, I was adding fuel to the fire. Then one day, in the middle of a hard moment, I tried something new. A simple 10-second shift that stopped resentment before it could take over. It didn’t mean ignoring my feelings or pretending everything was fine. It meant taking control of my mind before resentment could control me. And the more I used this trick, the less resentment stuck around. It was a game-changer. Now, I want to share it with you. If you’ve been feeling that tightness in your chest, that lump in your throat, that “Why does it have to be this hard?” frustration, I’ve got you. Comment "MIND TRICK" below, and I’ll DM you my free guide: The 10-Second Mind Trick That Stops Resentment in Its Tracks. Time to make room for peace instead. created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with ☆’s scott street

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The way you text your co-parent can make or break your peace. I used to dread opening my phone. Every text felt like an attack, a fight waiting to happen. It didn’t matter what I said, somehow, it always spiraled into drama. Until I changed the way I communicated. Instead of reacting emotionally, I started using a simple formula: ✔️ Keep it short and neutral ✔️ Stick to facts, not feelings ✔️ Offer solutions instead of complaints ✔️ End with clarity and positivity The shift was almost instant. Texts that once led to all-day anxiety now felt like simple exchanges. Our co-parenting dynamic wasn’t perfect overnight, but it became manageable…and that alone changed everything. Here’s your challenge: Next time you need to text your co-parent, try this formula. See how it feels. And if co-parenting still feels like an uphill battle, you’re not alone. Inside The Studio, I share deeper strategies to navigate the tough moments with confidence. Because you deserve peace, even in co-parenting. 📌 Save this for later & send it to a friend who needs it!

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What if I told you that your stepkids don’t have to love you for your home to feel peaceful? 🤯 Most stepmoms believe that if their stepkids don’t like them, their home will always feel tense. So they try harder. They overextend themselves. They put their own needs on the back burner, hoping that if they just do more, things will finally click. And when their efforts are met with eye rolls, cold shoulders, or total indifference? It stings. It feels personal. It makes you question whether you’ll ever feel at home in your own family. But here’s the truth no one tells you: You don’t need forced closeness to create a peaceful home. You need: ✔️ Boundaries that protect your emotional well-being. ✔️ Respect—because while love can’t be forced, kindness can be expected. ✔️ A safe environment where relationships can grow naturally, without pressure or unrealistic expectations. When you stop chasing love and start focusing on respect, connection, and emotional safety, everything shifts. You become the steady presence in your home—not someone desperate for validation, but someone who models confidence and peace. If this is what you want, but you’re stuck in the cycle of over-giving and under-receiving, let’s change that. In 1:1 coaching, we’ll create a plan that helps you set boundaries, build emotional resilience, and create the peaceful home you’re craving—without bending over backward for approval. 💌 Comment COACHING below if you’d like me to send you the link to book a free consultation. Let’s rewrite your stepfamily story.

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I didn’t realize how much this one tiny phrase was weighing me down… until I stopped saying it. For years, I carried the pressure of being a good wife, a good mom, a good stepmom. And without even thinking about it, I constantly told myself: 💭 I have to… make sure everyone gets along. 💭 I have to…keep the peace. 💭 I have to… love all the kids like my own. 💭 I have to… become best friends with my co-parent 💭 I have to… do things the same way as the “traditional” families. Every time I said "I have to," it felt like a burden—like my role in this family was just a never-ending list of exhausting responsibilities. No wonder I felt overwhelmed. So I made a small shift. I replaced I have to with I CHOOSE TO . - I choose to show up with love, even when it’s hard. - I choose to set boundaries that protect my peace. - I choose to invest in my marriage, not just survive it. And that shift changed everything. Because suddenly, I wasn’t trapped. I was in control. I had power. And it helped me really that I didn’t HAVE to actually do any of those things. Some I chose to let go of. This is the kind of shift we focus on inside The Studio—where women just like you are learning to rewrite the stories they tell themselves and create real, lasting change in their blended families. If you’re tired of feeling stuck, come join us. DM me if you’d like me to send you more info about it. created by Non-Traditional Family Coach with Good Neighbours’s Keep it up

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